Rodrigo loves horses. I wish we could afford a horse (horse+feed+training+pasture+etc) just so that Rodrigo could have another playmate. The first time we realized that he loves horses, he ran to our neighbor’s house (giving me a heart attack as he darted across a busy road) and when I caught up with him, he was in play stance and the horse was turning left and right, tail up, and they were having a blast.
The humans stood at the fence (my neighbors, my boyfriend, and myself) watching in awe. I was kicking myself for not having my camera surgically attached to my face. What an amazing moment, but thankfully it wasn’t the last.
Rodrigo’s love of horses made me curious about cross species bonding. Does this really happen or am I misinterpreting the interaction. A coworker of mine has 2 cats, 5 dogs, 3 horses, and 2 donkeys. They all peacefully interact and the horses play with the dogs – they run around with a huge stuffed animal in the pasture. Sounds like bonding to me.
Are our animals bonding or just tolerating each other?
I sent out feelers in the animal lover community and Dane brought up an interesting point. Dane said that animal bonding is really just tolerance. We, the humans, call it bonding, because we tend to humanize our pets’ behavior.
Doug Johnson has owned 42 animals in his life (dogs, cats, and horses) and shared a cool story…
Years ago I had a yellow lab that was everyone’s friend. We moved to a new home and it had huge trees around it. There were lots of squirrels running around. The dog always seemed friendly towards them and didn’t chase them. They never seemed bothered by him. One day I found him curled up sleeping at the base of one of the trees and a squirrel was curled up with him sleeping. Talk about cross species friendships! ~ Doug Johnson
That sounds like more than tolerance to me. What do you think?
It’s amazing how accepting animals can be of each other…
I have 2 dogs and 5 monkeys. One of our dogs, Tank, our English bulldog, we purchased as a baby. I had monkeys before him so he was raised with them. He gets along well with all of my monkeys. He lets my black-capped capuchin groom him ever so patiently, and he lets my little squirrel monkeys ride on his back.
My 2nd dog, Bella, an American Bulldog, we got at 2 years old from another family who could no longer keep her. On the day we went to get her, I took my little squirrel monkey with her to see how she would react to her. She was very curious, but never showed aggression. Bella accepted the monkeys from day one, and also lets our capuchins groom her. She will often sit outside of their enclosure and let the capuchins groom her and just “hang out” with them. ~ Eileen Perez-Carrion, Earthy Chic Boutique (see picture of Bella and the monkey)
Janice Costa, owner and founder of Canine Camp Getaway of NY shared friendly, social dogs (like Labradors) tend to get along with other pets. Her own lab befriended a giant turtle at a Pet Expo. Most dogs will “bond” with another species if they’re raised with that animal. Its might be a little more difficult to introduce a new pet into an already established pet household. Our cats never did warm up to the littermates.
My older Shep/Malinois mix is definitely a high-drive dog, but she was raised around animals from a young age, and had constant exposure to a wide variety of dogs, cats and other critters. So I’m not surprised when she wants to go up to strange cats on the street and kiss them — and she once herded a hurt squirrel over to me, very gently, and looked up at me as if to say, “Okay, do something!” (we called Squirrel Rescue — and who knew there was even such a thing as Squirrel Rescue?). She also befriended a 300 pound pig at a nursing home event once. Yet I suspect if she were not raised around animals and given exposure from a young age, she may not have been as tolerant. ~ Janice Costa
Introducing a new pet to the home…
When it comes to animals bonding to each other, it’s really important to take care in how you introduce a new pet into their new home. “There is a certain skill level necessary to introduce new animals into the home, whether it’s a second dog, a cat, a rabbit, or even tropical fish. Dogs tend to look to their owners for cues on how they are expected to behave, so it helps if you have a strong handler capable of performing the introduction and providing supervised time together for the pets to get to know each other, and to recognize each other as family rather than as prey.” ~ Janice Costa
Daily is an example for all of us to be more tolerate and bond with outside our “type”
The very first day Daisy was in our home she was only 3 months. Daisy didn’t know what a cat was or was not, she didn’t know if she should love it or hate it. Daisy not only fell in love with all three of her new cat siblings but she instinctively knew to be gentle with them. This was one of the many powerful moments we have experienced with Daisy. You can view Daisy with her cat siblings here:
But ultimately it would be our other rescue dog Olivia who Daisy quickly trained to be her eyes and ears when needed, but I do believe had we not had Olivia she would have not hesitated to teach Louie our three legged cat to be her support. ~ Maryam Faresh
Now it’s Your Turn! Does your dog have a friend that isn’t a dog?